In today’s world, it’s common to see people celebrating important events like graduations, weddings, and birthdays in ways that are not Islamic. Instead of showing proper gratitude to Allah for these blessings, many people turn to things like hiring DJs, dancing, and other forms of entertainment. These actions take away from the true meaning of being thankful to Allah (SWT), who has given us everything.
Instead of giving thanks in the right way, people often choose to celebrate in ways that are against Islamic teachings. Allah has warned us in the Qur’an:
“And when your Lord proclaimed, 'If you give thanks, I will give you more; but if you are ungrateful, indeed My punishment is severe.'"
(Surah Ibrahim 14:7)
This verse reminds us that showing true gratitude means acting in a way that pleases Allah. When we use un-Islamic ways to celebrate, we risk losing the blessings we were given. Gratitude is not just about saying “Alhamdulillah,” but also about acting in ways that reflect our faith.
A worrying trend is how these behaviors are affecting our children. Imagine a child who, after doing well in school, celebrates by dancing or jumping around instead of thanking Allah for the success. Subhanallah! If we don’t teach our children the proper way to give thanks, we are setting them on the wrong path.
Adults often set the wrong example too. When students graduate from university, they sometimes celebrate with music, dancing, and things that are not allowed in Islam. These behaviors not only weaken their own faith, but they also set a bad example for younger people. The Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said:
“Whoever imitates a people is one of them.”
(Sunan Abi Dawud 4031)
This Hadith warns us against copying practices that are not from Islam. If we follow the trends of society that go against our religion, we are putting ourselves at risk of being led astray.
Islam doesn’t forbid celebrations, but they must follow the teachings of the religion. Instead of hiring DJs or having parties full of music and dancing, we can celebrate in ways that bring us closer to Allah. Some examples are gathering to remember Allah, offering extra prayers, giving charity or fasting. As Allah (SWT) says:
"So remember Me; I will remember you. And be grateful to Me and do not deny Me."
(Surah Al-Baqarah 2:152)
True happiness comes from pleasing Allah. Celebrating in a way that is allowed in Islam brings peace and contentment, knowing that we are showing gratitude in the best way.
May Allah guide us to be thankful in the right way, help us protect our children from bad influences, and make us examples of good behavior for future generations.
Aameen Yaa Rabbil Aalamen.